Conflicts will occur repeatedly in our life until we learn to
adjust with others and this adjustment can be achieved through
right understanding. Ultimately everyone has to adjust willingly
or forcefully. With the right understanding, we can prevent
conflicts and find peace and happiness. Life is nothing but a
series of adjustments. From birth to death, you have to make
adjustments. Whether you enjoy studying or not, you have to
adjust and study. Likewise, in married life, initially there is
happiness, but later the husband or the wife has to make
adjustments due to conflicts. These conflicts occur because of
differences in their personalities. How many people in this age
are fortunate enough to be able to adjust with others throughout
their lives? Even between Rama and Sita, were there not many
adjustments? Imagine the kind of adjustments Sita must have
made when she was sent away to the forest, even when she
was expecting a baby.
With parents and children there are adjustments every
step of the way. If we adjust with understanding, there will be
peace and we will not bind any karma. If we do not adjust to
people around us, we will invite problems. This strategy of
‘Adjust everywhere’ is Dadashri’s master key, which opens all
doors in life. If we use Gnani Purush Dadashri’s golden maxim
‘Adjust Everywhere’ and apply it in our life, then our everyday
life will become beautiful.
