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accept her

TO IMPROVE HER OR TO ADJUST TO HER

If you #adjust to the other person in every situation, #life will be beautiful. After all, what do we take with us when we die ? Someone may tell you to ‘straighten out your wife’, but if you try to do so, you will become crooked yourself. Do not try to #improve your wife. Just accept her as she is. It would be a different matter if you had a permanent #relationship with her life after life, but who knows where she will be in her next life. You will both die at different times. Your #karma is different and so is hers. And if by chance you manage to improve her in this life, in her next life she will end up being someone else’s wife!

Therefore, do not try to improve her. She too, should not attempt to improve you. Whatever she is like, tell yourself, ‘she is as good as gold’. You cannot improve anyones prakriti (inherent characteristics and traits) no matter how hard you try. A dog’s tail remains crooked, no matter how hard you try to straighten it. So be careful and let her be whatever she is. Adjust everywhere.

Reference: Book - #Adjust Everywhere Page  #7, Para: 4, 5, Page #8, Para 1

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